by Brian Broderick
Need to know how to let a girl know you like her? Never try to come at the predicament logically or try to justify it to her - Many men out there try to create some sort of "passionate" way of expressing their affection for the girl like you'd see in one of those corny movies. Then they meet up with her and have this really serious talk where they tell her precisely how they feel for her. They are often so nervous about the whole subject that they fumble with their words and simply seem like a bumbling fool.
You really ought to steer clear of this for at least two good reasons.
The first challenge with doing things in this way is that you are coming at it from the frame of mind that you must persuade her into liking you. This kind of behavior is just one other way of trying to win her over and prove to her what an excellent man you are. You are still putting her up on a pedestal and that's just not attractive to women.. It is perfectly acceptable to like a woman without needing to have some sort of logical reasoning behind it.
And second, you probably are not even there with her in any way because you're too busy being anxious and churning over exactly what you're going to say to her. You're lost in your own brain, which really isn't attractive to girls by any means. Do the contrary of this and be there wholly with her.
This most likely seems very airy-fairy to you, but the results this can give you with girls is extraordinary. You can start doing this by paying attention to your body. Can you feel the way your feet feel in your shoes or how your butt feels as you're resting in a chair?? Or what about that nice feeling in your chest when you hang out with the girl? I hope you can begin to grasp why this is so key when you are talking to girls?
I hope you are starting to understand this.
So, that's what you aren't supposed to do, but what else could you do to prove to her that you do not only want to be friends? Here is how to let a girl know you like her the proper way.
There's a phrase in the seduction online community named an SOI - Statement of Intent. The term was created by Wayne Elise (also known as "Juggler") and is really just a simple technique to let a woman know that you think she's hot. A standard SOI should go like this:
Her: My last rehearsal is tomorrow night. I am so looking forward to my dance performance on Sunday.
You: I really think it's sexy how committed and excited you are about your performance.
The key word here is the word "sexy." This lets her know that you do not look at her as just a friend. This isn't really a very obvious thing, but it tells her you want her and it tells her that she can begin flirting with you. Just do this in a fun way and move ahead with the discussion. You want to be informal with this or else it will come across as really weird. Trust me, she will not overlook your point.
The other strategy to show a woman that you like her is to be altogether straight and honest about it.
Let's say you're out with a woman and out of nowhere this quiet feeling descends over the both of you--and it is not one of those "I'm bored to death" silences. Both of you know very well what it means. You want to do what a man does here and simply take her and say something like "I really just want to kiss you now." Then you need to follow this up by kissing her. Not just a peck on the cheek, but a genuine kiss. This takes a little bit of courage, but girls really like it when you do this.
The key difference between this and the clumsy, nervous technique above, is that, first off, it is not some type of memorized routine you kind of stumble through. And secondly, this is a rather manly thing to do. You are really telling her that you want to kiss her, not "sort of kind of" asking her if she wants to catch a movie. You are wholly confident with your desires. This type of action also shows her that you have a great deal of follow through and that you pursue your dreams. Women think this is appealing.
So, that is how to let a girl know you like her. The main factor here is to make certain it is casual and never some sort of big deal. If you just act like it is the most normal and natural thing there is, she will treat it so and follow suit.
If you found this article helpful and want to learn more ways to improve your success with women, check out Telling a Woman that You Like Her and Double Your Dating Review.
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