How To Get Girl Back If You've Been A Jerk

How To Get Girl Back If You've Been A Jerk

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A few situations in life are a huge struggle and one of them is how to successfully get girl back and keep her after you've messed up big time!

So what did you do?

• Did you cheat?
• Were you neglectful?
• Selfish?

Or just unlucky?

The questions could go on. Whichever or whatever you did, if you seriously want to get girl back, you're going to have to sort yourself out!

It's no doubt going to be tough for you, but I'm going to suggest something counter-intuitive: leave her alone!

Give her some time to herself. You never know, she might well realize that she misses you and agrees to starting up the relationship again all on her own.

Don't dismiss this possibility, even if all looks lost right now, equally don't cling to it as a possibility. If it happens it happens, if it doesn't it doesn't!

However, if what you need to get girl back is a much more direct and hands on approach then again, take some time out and use that time to get your head straight.

By default, you give her some time to think also and put the whole thing into much needed perspective.

So, find your friends and spend time with them.

Make sure you're not pestering her with emails and texts and accidentally trying to bump into her in the places where you know she hangs out. This will only back fire on you and ruin your chances of getting her back, because she'll only become annoyed with you.

If you neglected her, missed her birthday, hardly ever took her out, then you need to seriously look at that behavior.

No girl worth her salt is going to put up with such behavior.

A girl wants and needs, to be taken out and made a fuss of.

She needs to know that you want to be with her for more than the obvious. If you fail to show her that, then she will walk and find a guy who can show her that.

If all that you did was hang around with your friends and ignored her wishes, then again, you're going to have to understand that this is not the way to treat a girl.

If you're sure that you want a girlfriend then it's time to fix up, look good and look sharp!

Start acting like she's important to you.

To get girl back you now need to show her that you have understood her needs and you are ready and prepared to meet those needs.

Don't mess up and try and get her back under false pretenses. It won't work for long and maybe when she leaves the next time, she'll be gone for good.

So, to get girl back you need a plan!

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How To Win Your Love Back And Keep Them

How To Win Your Love Back And Keep Them

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If you're looking around wondering how to win your love back, then you've no doubt found yourself in a situation where you're still in love with your ex, but your ex has walked out of the relationship.

Your first step to win your love back has to be to take some time out and get your head together. It would be a big mistake to try and win back your ex within days of the breakup, particularly if it has been a messy breakup. So make sure that you take some time to sort yourself out.

Your first thought should always be to look after yourself. That means avoiding your ex and making no contact with them at all. It's not going to be easy to go from being in a relationship with your ex to making no contact with your ex, but it is vital that you do. Contacting your ex makes you weak and puts you in a negative and vulnerable position.

Particularly if your ex has asked to be left alone. Constantly calling or trying to see your ex means that you become less appealing to them. Exs hate needy and desperate, so back off if you want to win your love back.

Instead, work at sorting yourself our. As you focus on yourself make sure that you're not spending all your time on your own. It is very easy to find that when the love of your life walks out on you that you end up filling that space doing nothing but thinking about them. This is a surefire way to find yourself depressed and low and recovering from depression brings a whole other level of problems that you don't need.

Get out and about and reconnect with your family and friends. Meet new people and make yourself have some fun. Yeah, it's not going to be easy, but if it's the way forward to figuring out how to win your love back, then you have to do it.

As you slowly get back on your feet after the shock of the breakup, you should then begin to think about any role that you might have played in the breakup of the relationship.

It is very easy to blame your ex for everything that has gone wrong, but remember, it takes two to make a relationship and two to break that relationship. So during this time away from your ex as you work on figuring out how to get back with them, make sure that you are honest with yourself and that you claim any part of the breakup that is down to you.

Did you make a mistake that caused the break down of the relationship? If you did, then you need to figure out how you're going to rectify the behavior that led to the mistake and the eventual breakup.

Though some of the outlined steps might seem counter-intuitive, if you're serious about figuring out how to win your love back, they are steps that you must take.

The important thing is to have a step by step plan that will lead you in your heartfelt pursuit.

Frankly, that's what our friend, James, did when his true love dumped me. He followed a plan authored by T 'Dub' Jackson. When his cause was almost hopeless and he was dying inside, it hauled him up by his bootstraps and helped him get his life's love back. It's called "The Magic of Making Up" and you can check it out "The Magic Of Making Up"