by T Dub Jackson
If you've cheated on your husband, moving forward with your marriage might seem like a long-shot at the moment. There are few things in marriages that cause as much pain as cheating. To know that you were the one who hurt the person you love most in the world is a hard weight to carry.
After that, relationships can also come to three consequences. One is positive; the other ones are considered negative and must not be ignored.
1) Retreat
2) Surrender
3) Advance
Retreat
Wars and battles for love are never won with all actions done with all retreat. You are not sure of what to do in your relationship. Do you really want to move up to the scale of a better marriage? You have to answer this yourself if you really want something to happen.
There's still hope in this stage but the future isn't looking very bright at the moment. You need to take steps now, before cheating happens to prevent cheating otherwise you'll have an even more difficult time working things out between the two of you.
Fall Backward
Primarily, negative emotional uprising roots out of arguments and distress. This is inevitable. This is the kind of consequence I'm sure you wouldn't want to have. After that, surrendering to the hardship is the consequence.
Why can this happen? Of course this would if you still didn't stop and went on with the other man. He is just a short-while pleasure but in the long-run, it will be different. Cheating works this way and this is a fact.
Forward Momentum
Move forward for the better. This is what you really wish for in regaining him back. The consequence depends upon your decision if you want to make your marriage advance and take up the challenge. Fight on and disprove the cheating along time. If you made up your mind then you that just proves how dedicated you are without surrendering your marriage.
Now, how you do you put in a great strategy to win him back again?
Old issues must be resolved
Plan out your marriage's future
Sit down and talk about the problems in your marriage and know the solutions for your mutual benefit
Instill realistic expectations of each other and remember the reasons why you genuinely love one another.
Accept the trends of the modern marriage in creating expectations
What's positive about moving forward is when you start doing it, good effects add up. Getting the best learning out of cheating will make both of you do things better as one.
When you focus on the positive things about your love for one another and your relationship, anything can happen. You can even get your husband back after you've cheated. Check here for free reprint licence: Cheating On My Marriage - What Should I Do To Move Forward?.
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