by Dr. Vance Hardisty
There was an article I read about a man who asked an adviser, "Why do girls go for the bad guys?" He was a decent man he explained. He treated women politely, brought them flowers and generally respected them. Then along comes a charmer who does just the opposite and wins the girl the good guy is hoping to attract.
It may take a different approach and a different set of standards for a man to look at a different type of woman. The standards of most women do not include a rude, ornery vulgar man who treats them like dirt. Only very insecure females who are a bit on the dense side would want that. Or they've been watching too many nasty guy movie characters like Hugh Jackman's in Australia. Even if they find low class guys that exciting before marriage - if they manage to get them to the altar, which is doubtful - they'll soon regret it. When the honeymoon is over the marriage becomes a train wreck. Furthermore, these kinds of guys usually want to save their marriages only to keep their women under their control.
The majority of women would die for men who don't leer, pinch and act lecherous toward them. There is a greater chance of having a good husband if you start with a good guy. A good guy like that doesn't unceremoniously grope for his woman's breasts or between her legs when he pops through the door. If it is time to have sex, and he treats her with love, compassion and respect, and coax her passion to rise gradually. He leaves the gross stuff to cave men and beer guzzling jerks. The good guy usually is very much into preserving his marriage, too.
And frankly, a woman who has an ounce of sense in her body will shun the jerk and go for the guy with class, even if he isn't all that good looking. A woman may find that she is being left by the bad boy she thought was so marvelous; or she might wish to dump him and discovers that's not as easy as she thinks. Save your marriage? We'd say, get hooked up in a good marriage in the first place and you'll want to save it. Already married to the bad boy? Then don't wait until you get dumped to find a solution. We've got the stuff you need to help make things better.
Margaret Hardisty, International Bestselling Author and Speaker Dr. Vance Hardisty International Speaker and Author Love Relationship Headquarters www.loverelationshipheadquarters.com
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