by Frank White
Many people who are in a verge of divorce are asking what they can do to save their marriage. It may seem too late but if they really put in the effort, it is still possible to do so. A divorce is normally caused by one or both parties not getting what they want in a relationship. There are many conflicting advice by many counselors but whatever advice you may receive, the best is to start with the issues that caused the divorce. If you are not sure what those are, it is time to visit your therapist to find out. It is not anyone's fault as it takes both to make a marriage works.
You may be asking yourself how you can do this. One way and the best way is to listen to what your partner is telling to you directly and indirectly. Are you totally submerged with the kids and not paying attention to your partner? Normally money is the number one reason for marital break ups. We are living in uncertain times these days so money problems are something that you should eliminate and conquer now. It is much easier to live together financially than apart. Keep in mind that it takes two people in a relationship for the relationship to have longevity.
If the situation occurs that your partner has found a new lover then this means that the new lover or third party is the root cause of the divorce. Ask yourself if there is a strategy that you can use when someone else is involved in your relationship.
For a long time a divorce was not legally and even more so morally possible. In many societies a divorce was considered taboo. Well, times have changed and they have changed drastically. Now a divorce is a common thing. In some places it is a trend; sadly to say. To get a divorce you just state to a judge your differences and the judge will grant it.
To file for divorce takes no effort at all these days and it is quick, easy and cheap, unfortunately. You may be asking yourself if it is still possible to save the marriage. Well the easy answer is yes but you must be willing to work hard at it and each of you must acknowledge the problems and work on those problems individually and together. Only this way you may be able to save your marriage.
It is easier to file for divorce now. So, it is still possible to save your marriage? The short answer is yes but you need to take a hard look at the strains your marriage has on both of you and you need to work on yourself. The good news is that when you are willing to change, you will influence your spouse to change as well.
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