by T Dub Jackson
Cheating might knock more than a little bit of the wind out of your sails but you can get back on course and sail right and true even after cheating has taken a toll on your relationship. It might be hard to see the other side of the storm when you're right in the middle of it but there is a bright shiny day on the other side of this storm. You just have to have the tenacity and sheer strength of will to sail through it.
How will you manage it?
It sounds difficult but try to think of the ways on how you can make yourself dry even when it's raining. It's either you stay home or equip yourself with the proper clothing when going out on the rain - rain coat, jacket, boots, umbrella. By equipping yourself with the proper garments, chances of getting wet and getting sick at the same time is lesser.
When you look up at the sky and see there are dark clouds that are starting to appear, be prepared. You can avoid getting wet if you are prepared not to, plus avoid getting sick. Sometimes, the first heavy pour of emotions-hatred, anger, fear that you felt when you've found out that you've been cheated seems to be unforgivable that we block our emotions with the idea that we will not forgive the person who've caused that.
Cheating seems fatal but when you learn to forgive and forget, you will see that it helped you and your partner become better-not only in dealing with relationships but as individuals as well.
Mending the Sails
It's not enough that you will forgive and forget but what's important is you have to know what caused it so that you can prevent that from happening again. Pay attention to even the smallest detail to make sure that you did not miss something. Sometimes the smaller it is, the bigger its importance in addressing the issue.
The storms of relationship can be caused by:
Trust, patience (or lack thereof), understanding, communication, love, commitment, and loyalty.
These are important in making or breaking a relationship. If you don't know how to mend a smaller patch, how can you mend even a bigger patch in the future? It's like stop playing with fire to avoid getting burned. It's up to both of you on how you will manage to work it out but it needs both your cooperation in the success of your relationship.
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