by T Dub Jackson
Cheating men aren't evil men looking for an excuse to get their rocks off. Ok, they aren't all evil men. In fact, most men who cheat love their wives very much but wish she could or would do something specific for them.
Cheating always leave couples with an enormous and profound emotional pain. A betrayed wife could suffer from long term effects like grave financial repercussions and/or depression, but it is encouraging to know that however serious, it is not the end of the marriage yet. Many couples had survived and overcome the infidelity issue in their marriages and in fact had become stronger and happier in their married lives.
The statistics of happy couples who outlived infidelity issues can give you facts about cheating and signs prior to cheating. A happily ever after marriage starts with wives foreknowledge on the common reasons why men cheat. This will serve as a precaution in order to prevent infidelity from happening in the future.
Here are five things men wish women knew about their cheating.
1) "I'd rather feel unloved than disrespected." Cheating husbands often feel disrespected either privately or publicly by their wives. They need to know their wives trust them. Love could either wane or fade in time but definitely not the feeling of inadequacy and disrespect.
2) "I care about your appearance." Although men really suffer from visual temptation, it doesn't mean that they are wide-eyed Homo sapiens. The fact is even the nicest husband can turn his head as a response to a woman's provocative clothing. This doesn't mean that they want you to dress like in a party everyday and put on some make up and retouch every minute. Men want to see their wives making an effort in taking care of themselves. They want to see their wives not letting go on maintaining their attractiveness.
3) The grass isn't always greener. Most men figure out quickly that while the other woman seems tempting at first, nine times out of ten she'll ultimately want more from him than he is willing to give or her true colors will shine through. This is when he'll realize how great he has things at home with you.
4) He hates the secrets and lies as much as you do but often feels as if he's in too deep to stop things at this point. It could be that the other woman has threatened to go public with the affair and he's trying to save you the embarrassment as well so he keeps on going with the other woman and telling you the same secrets and lies he doesn't believe are convincing to begin with.
5) "Don't blame yourself. It's my fault." Men share the emotional burden of infidelity. Some felt they're like a trash in their children's eyes and making up for their mistakes seems really difficult for now. Intellectually, they don't want their wives blaming themselves. His mind might have probably gone blank but during this times, he needs you to remind him that there is always a way out of here. And that cheating could be stopped.
The good news doesn't end there. Even if things have gone on too long and you're now searching for ways to get your ex back there is hope for your relationship. Here's what you need to do first: http://www.magicofmakingup.com. Get a totally unique version of this article from our article submission service
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