by T Dub Jackson
Staying with your man who cheated on you is somehow unfair, but it will be more unfair if you just let a beautiful relationship with lots of good memories be down the drain. To be cheated by your man is way-hurtful; but what is more hurtful is if you just let the pain and anger eat you up and kill the love and respect you have for him.
There's a truth about love at first sight but it rarely happens to people nowadays. Love is an investment of emotion that when you sow honest feelings, you will reap the same. But what if your man cheated on you? Does it mean he doesn't feel the same way you feel for him? That he loves the other gal more than he loves you? It's not exactly the reason why he cheated.
It's not good for the children to suffer the consequences the parents' problems have caused. Your children are the most valuable reason why you need to stick to the marriage and work your relationship out with your husband. At times it can be difficult to deal with him because the pain and bitterness will rule your heart and mind. But if you just think of your children's welfare, it won't be that bad after all.
Your faith in your marriage is also an important factor why you must not give up without putting a fight first. No marriage is perfect and every married couple experiences different trials on their marriage which can either make or break their relationship. Give him chance to prove that he is really into salvaging the marriage.
Is he really sorry or just trying to show a different side of his face? Apologizing sincerely can start healing the wound of betrayal. But what if the sorry you got from your husband is fake? Surely, it will just make matters worse. But before jumping into any worse case scenario, give him chance to do his own thing. Wait for him to say sorry and mend your heart that has been torn apart because of his cheating.
Making up your mind to stay with your man will help you both know where you want the relationship to go. Making a sound decision will help you think of the situation more justifiably and might even help you ease the burden of infidelity. Take control of the situation and take control of your feelings.
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