by T Dub Jackson
Dating after a breakup can be more than a little bit intimidating. No matter how much experience you had with the dating game before your long-term relationship you've been out of the swing of things for a little while and need to take things slowly in order to get your rhythm back. While you're taking a walk on the single side keep these things in mind when planning your next date.
Here are four reasons you might want to think about taking things slow when dating after a breakup.
1) Rebuilding confidence takes a little time. When your long-term relationship ended your confidence probably took a hit. It's not easy admitting that you couldn't make it work (even if you were the one to call things off) to yourself or anyone else. By taking things slow you're giving yourself the opportunity to regain your footing and your confidence one date at a time rather than going all in to find out your in very deep water with no sign of the shore.
2) Love doesn't happen instantly (at least not very often). There are some who might make a good argument for love at first sight. The rest of us have discovered that love takes a little time to build and sort out. If you rush into love you might find out quickly that it is purely chemical instead. Chemistry can be great but not when you're in a vulnerable state. Unfortunately for you the first few dates after a breakup are you in a vulnerable state.
3) Rebound relationships almost never lead to real relationships. And they also cause more damage than what you initially started with. Avoid getting involved in this messy affair and just say no to rebound relationships. Don't get tempted by the promise of a fast cure because most of the time, rebound love will only cause additional pain and will make it harder for you to recover.
4) Your head and your heart don't share the same ideas. These two essential parts rarely do. Most of the time, when you're trying to heal a broken heart, your brain might advise you to dive into the dating scene as soon as possible. The heart doesn't share this opinion and usually would rather try to lick its wounds first before trying to meet new people. It's sometimes wiser to listen to your heart. It's never good to rush things when your heart's not in it. Take things slow and know that it's okay to not get over a person really quickly. It just means they're worth your time.
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