by Susan Richardson
Human beings are hard to figure out under the best of circumstances. When it comes to romantic relationships, anything can happen if events are left to unfold on their own. All relationships have their ups and downs and temptations to stray outside of the marriage. Unfortunately, the internet has made it all too easy to meet people and form relationships. That's why it is important to stay alert for emotional affair signs, so if your spouse does start down the path to emotional adultery, you can take steps to save your marriage before it is too late.
To watch for emotional affair signs, you must first learn what an emotional affair is. Emotional adultery occurs when your partner goes outside of your marriage and confides his feelings, emotions, and thoughts with another person. It is an investment of emotion, and contains most aspects of a romance even if it does not involve physical contact.
Just because there is no physical contact, it doesn't mean that emotional adultery is not something to worry about. When you see emotional affair signs, that is a clear signal there are problems in your marriage and it could be in danger. You spouse only has a limited amount of emotional energy. If he is pouring a large amount of it into his affair, there will be little left over for the marriage and his relationship with you.
If your husband is involved in an emotional affair, you may find that the two of you are talking, but not really sharing. You are talking about the weather, the bills, and your children, but you are no longer sharing your experiences, emotions, or thoughts. Your husband may have put himself in a position where he has to choose which relationship he spends his emotional energy in. If he chooses you over the other woman, your marriage can be saved. However, if he's totally engrossed in an emotional affair, which he might be if you've ignored the signs, he will likely choose the other woman.
Just because your husband may be involved only in an emotional affair, don't assume it will not evolve into something more. It is human nature to crave physical contact so there will be an underlying drive to combine both aspects into a full fledged extramarital affair that includes a sexual relationship as well.
To keep your marriage strong, you should always be watching for emotional affair signs and confront your husband when you have suspicions. You may need to professional help to identify the signs of emotional adultery and to help the two of you cope with the fallout and repair your marriage. Here are a few of the common signs you should be alert for:
* Your husband has suddenly become very conscious appearance, even when he's at home working on his computer. You shouldn't assume this interest in his appearance is solely for your benefit.
- If your sex life changes, this could be a sign that your husband is so distracted by his emotional adultery that he has lost interest in you. He may claim to be too busy or too tired.
- You no longer have meaningful conversations with your spouse where you discuss your emotions and feeling with each other.
- Your husband is defensive about the time he spends on the computer or is secretive about what he does on there.
If you notice two or more of the above emotional affair signs, you should suspect your marriage might be in trouble. Take steps to save your marriage by seeking professional help before it is too late.
Want to find out more about Emotional Affair Signs, then visit Susan Richardson's site on how to stop Emotional Adultery NOW!
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