by T Dub Jackson
Will you be able to get your wife's forgiveness after being caught cheating? Do not acknowledge the thought that it's just easy for it isn't. Cheating is a major disaster that has already ruined many relationships and marriages. If you have done this grievous sin, do whatever it takes in order to be forgiven, in order to save your marriage.
Here are a few things not to do when you're trying to get your wife to take you back after you've been caught cheating on her.
Whether it's true or not, never tell her that it didn't mean a thing at all because for her, it meant something. Cheating means something. Sex is always involved in cheating so don't say that it meant nothing. Men and women see sex in different perspective. But because sex is a symbol of love and devotion for women, never say that it was all but for sex. You will drive her crazier.
Prepare to spend a little time in the doghouse. Even if she doesn't kick you out of the house without a single question asked you should plan to be spending quite a few nights on the couch or in a spare bedroom. This is not something that will just go away. It also isn't anything she's going to forgive easily or willingly. You're going to have to pay a little penance before all is forgiven. This is just the start.
Do not pretend that as if nothing happened. You can try pretending for a while but that doesn't mean your absolved form the case. If not talked over, it will become a ghost in your marriage haunting you and your wife that will eventually cause nightmares. Don't let that happen. Talk about it. Answer her questions but tell her the minutest detail of the said cheating; this might even break her more. Whatever the result is, you have to endure it.
Ask her how she feels and listen to the answer. No matter how painful it is for you to hear it's important for you to know. It's even more important that she knows you know. The next thing you need to ask is where she thinks you should go from here. Chances are that she's not ready to call it quits just yet. She might be thinking about it as a kneejerk reaction but you should have a little time to work on making things right before she decides to say goodbye. If you ask her what she's thinking and what she wants to happen next you'll be giving her some of the control she feels was taken away when you cheated.
If she's already left or you're trying to work your way into her good graces and off your couch you might need a little help figuring out how to get your wife back for good. If you don't know where to begin, step one from this free video: http://www.magicofmakingup.com is the best place for you to get started. Watch it today and see if it doesn't change your entire approach for the better.
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