by Steve Bruce
Unlike many other types of lawyer, divorce lawyers are called in to deal with the break up of a relationship so they to be competent in their chosen field and have the right attitude. The best attorney to employ is one who, for at least half their time, is dealing with divorce cases and is fully skilled in mediation techniques. Still, you also need to feel at ease with them; someone who immediately instils a sense of trust.
Adversarial attorneys will use the hammer to crack a walnut approach which often happens when these cases go to court whereas an attorney who specializes in mediation will take a much calmer approach. To get the most from your divorce lawyer, be well prepared and have everything written down; do not waste your money and time asking questions, the answers to which are readily available.
Costs are always an issue so write down everything you want to ask and in a logical order always making sure there is an accurate record of times dates and the duration of conversations. Physical meetings will cost more so if an item can be dealt with by mail or on the phone this will save money.
Your attorney is there for advice and any foreseeable legal actions so do not rely on them for anything but what you are paying them for, and especially not as a shoulder to cry on. Unless you actually want your divorce lawyer to do something about your spouse's behaviour or actions, do not use them for general complaints as it is costly and probably won't achieve anything.
Remember to stay focused and in control and ensure your lawyer can work with you happily under these circumstances. You are employing them for their experience but at the same time you need them to understand that it is your divorce and you want to make the decisions about how it is too proceed. Ask that you be sent copies of all documents and letters and let them know that you expect phone calls to be answered by the next working day after all you are the one paying the bills.
There are instances when you may not actually need direct legal representation but may just wish to use the services of a lawyer for advice on legal aspects like a marital settlement. In these circumstances you may only need to write down any issues you are unsure about and speak to your lawyer regarding those, and possible outcomes. Many couples now arrange marital settlements, and use a divorce lawyer to help them with this rather than resorting to the courts.
The author shares his vast knowledge at Marriage Counselling Calgary. The time has come to erase any doubts you may hold on the subject of Marriage Counselor Salary.
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