by Broyde McDonald
Don't let it freak you out if you are the parent of an angry teenager. This is not an unusual occurrence. Yes, you wish that everything was happier, but it isn't right now. However, there are things that you can do to improve the chances that everything will turn out well for you both. This article mentions a few of them.
Let him see your love
Being a loving and caring parent that shows his concern is good for an angry teen. Let him know that he has yours. If not right now, it will eventually mean a lot to him.
Be cool
When you are angry at your teen, make sure that you do not shout at him. When you shout it is just as if you are saying that you have no more control. And it also makes other people angry. If you want your teen to rebel against you, then shout at him.
Respect him
Don't just love and have concern for your teen, you need to also respect him. Your respect will play a big role in causing him to respect your influence and in return respect you as well.
Respect yourself
For you to work together, you both need to have respect for each other. When played out, this means that you are not going to let him shout at you or ignore you when you speak to him etc. Everyone should also understand that because he is angry does not mean that he is excused from doing his household duties and accomplishing his responsibilities to the family.
Stand up to him. Don't be a wimp to him.
Recognize
Put work into finding out what it is that is making your teen angry. You should know at the start that it is not likely that you will ask him what the problem is and get the correct answer. It is by watching him that you will get the best information about what is annoying him.
Depression is the cause of many instances of teen anger. You should also get to understand what you can about depression and how it affects teenagers.
Solutions from home
The best solutions to anger problems will be worked out right inside your home. you should seriously consider doing an anger management class along with your angry teen. By doing the class with him, you will be able to help him through his exercises and for the most part give more shaping to the character you are developing.
Broyde McDonald writes to help you succeed in your anger management purposes. Learn more about teen anger and Anger management classes.
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