by Carlton T. Driver
When a marriage reaches the point where either separation or divorce is the only option, one of the hardest things to deal with is when you have to file a child custody case. It requires you to deal with a mix of feelings involving not only your past with the family, but also that you will have to address the challenges that your child will experience as you go through the process.
If there are minor children in your family it is inevitable that you will have to deal with the process of determining child custody when you separate, and/or file for divorce. Rather than dwelling on the past, it is best to look forward to a new life with your child or children. Looking forward to better days ahead for you and your child will give you the determination to go on fighting for your rights as a parent, and for your child's right to have a happier life under your guidance and care.
Being Certain That Your Child Will Be Under Your Care
Most parents will do everything they can just to have their children under their care following any separation. If you are one of those parents who have either filed or are planning to file for a child custody case, then you should be working on developing the strategies that will help you win custody over your child or children.
Family Law experts will tell you that the best way to win a child custody case is to be prepared with sufficient information about the process that you are involved in. If you are already knowledgeable about the ins-and-outs of child custody matters, then you are less likely to be caught by surprise by your former partner when fighting for custody.
In addition, if you are informed about the details of the child custody process, you can explain it more easily to your child. You will be able to answer his or her questions on why this has to happen, why is it happening and what is in store for him or her after the process. To make it more certain that you will win the child custody case, you should make sure that you:
- Be concerned primarily about the welfare of the children at all times. Unfortunately, adults can, and often do, turn a child custody battle into a battle zone. They frequently don't realize that they are not the only ones who are feeling the tension that the situation produces. It is always the children who are left with no other alternative but to accept the decision that their parents have made. Although your love for your children is what drives your desire to have custody of them, it certainly does not justify treating them as a form of sacrifice, hurting them on the process.
- Make a list of everything that concerns you with regard to the times when your child is in the care of the other parent. Documenting reports of things that make you uncomfortable when your child is with the other parent can be an effective tool that you can use to win your custody case.
- List of all of the reasons why being awarded the custody of your children would be in their best interest. Be absolutely certain that you not only elucidate the reasons why the children should remain with you, but be certain that you can describe these reasons thoroughly during the custody proceeding. This will assist you in achieving custody when your case is heard.
Learn more regarding the best ways to win your custody fight. Get your copies of two FREE reports regarding child custody by clicking on: Free Child Custody Reports. Then, find more information at web-omnibus.com. Check here for free reprint licence: Ways To Insure That You Get Custody Of Your Children.
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