by Nick Michenne
You need to tell your mate how you feel about them but you find yourself staring at a blank screen for so long you give up. Or you experiment with a few lines only to erase them all and start over again. Why is it very hard to tell the loved 1 in our life precisely what their value is to us? Do you find it difficult to find| the words to correctly convey how you feel? Or is it that you just can't explain it? Don't let words get in the way of telling your loved one how much they mean to you.
Everybody desires to be loved. When you are busy living life, there never seems time to relax and truly enjoy that central relationship that makes it all worthwhile. Oftentimes we think that those closest to us know exactly how we feel about them and how important they are to us. But the sad reality is that often, they do not.
So how can you write a love letter that you will feel proud to give and one that your loved one will cherish for all time? Where do you start? Follow these simple tips below and you will be on your way in no time.
1. First write down 5 things that you love about your partner and be as particular as possible. Rather than writing that they're kind, instead be detailed about how they are kind. Possibly they constantly smile at waiters in restaurants or they're excellent at making individuals really feel engaged, particularly at parties.
2. Write down five points that they have done that confirms how much you love them and again, give examples. Possibly they enveloped you in a hug last night when you were feeling frustrated about your family. Or maybe they knew how disappointed you were when you missed out on that promotion and they cooked a special meal to cheer you up.
3. Pick the best three examples from each of the above categories and weave them into your letter. You can start by saying 'I love how you...' and then include the 3 examples from the first point. Then you could say something like 'I loved the way you...' and then mention the other examples. Make certain you emphasize how their actions made you feel, how loved you felt and how grateful you are to have them in your life.
4. It is best to write up a draft first after which go over it to determine if you can improve it.
Occasionally it helps to write up what you need to say, edit it until it flows well and then leave it for a day or two prior to going back for a final edit and polish.
5. Specialty paper and write out your letter. Don't worry if your handwriting isn't perfect - it's distinctly yours and your loved 1 will appreciate the time and effort you put into the letter. Should you really feel your writing is so bad it will be difficult to read or if your illegible handwriting is some thing you've argued about prior to then pay to have it hand written by a professional. At a stretch you can use a much more romantic font on your computer, say Garamond in italic, but you ought to really only do that as a last resort. The more personal you can make your letter the more your loved one will treasure it.
6. Think about how you plan on delivering this letter to them. Will you slip it in their briefcase? Mail it? Leave it under the pillow? Do you need to be there when they open it? If you want to see their reaction, then it's greatest to hand it to them. You can team the letter up with a little gift like flowers or chocolate but make sure the gift doesn't stand out as much as the letter since you would like it to be the primary focus.
If a birthday or anniversary or other special occasion is involved you will wish to mention that too.
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