by T Dub Jackson
Is there a mysterious place or time when you should know it's the end with your cheating partner? It would be simple if there's an easy solution that would help you deal with your cheating partner and save your marriage. There are however questions you can ask after you found out about your cheating partner that will help you decide if its time to end your marriage.
1) Do you believe your husband has only done this one time and will never do it again? Cheating sometimes happens as a mere matter of convenience. It is easier to believe it's a one time deal if he comes to you with the confession rather than you finding out on your own.
2) Was it a continuing affair? If this query is answerable by yes always direct to more questions. Is the thing over? What is it with that relationship that he couldn't find it with you? Will he do this again? Can you live the fact of the previous affair or the fear of him being unfaithful again?
3) Is this beginning to be a negative habit in your marriage? If your husband keeps on doing this every now and then and consistently apologize after you have to scrutinize the issue why you continue to forgive him and how long you are ready to live this way.
4) Are you still willing to give your marriage another chance? This is the borderline to know if it's the end of your marriage. Once you surrendered your emotional investment there's really nothing left to make the next level of your marriage.
5) Has he taken all the blame for his cheating without dragging you to be blame as well? This is a big question to ask before you make a decision. If he's trying to blame for what he did then it's really time to ask yourself if you deserve to be free and have your life than continue your present situation.
6) Are you starting to consider you deserve this attitude from him? It's one thing to recognize that you may have contributed to a relationship by not taking care to certain needs with your marriage. It's one way to take responsibility that doesn't belong to you. Eventually, he is the one who is unfaithful and that he is responsible for.
You should draw your line in the sand at the spot that works best for you. Just remember that it is your responsibility to yourself to be part of a marriage that is happy and healthy. Sometimes you must <a href="http://www.magicofmakingup.com">get your ex husband back</a> to make that happen. Sometimes you must walk away and find someone else.
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