by T Dub Jackson
One major litmus test for any relationship on the issue of forgiveness is cheating. A number of individuals believe that if you will be able to chance upon a partner, or maybe an ex, who could forgive you for cheating then you have a jackpot in there for that would mean you will be forgiven for just anything that would come to mind.
Don't be misguided here though. Cheating is equated to destruction when it comes to relationships. It is one hard wall to face for any relationship but definitely not the only one that can kill the relationship. More importantly, it is not the most difficult to conquer.
That being said, learning the techniques that will help you get your ex to forgive you for cheating will help with almost any other relationship disaster you can experience. Try these great tips on for size and see if they don't make a real difference in your efforts.
Kill him with Kindness
Really, there's no actual killing to take place in here but you are enjoined to knock him off his stage. All you've got to do is show a little bit of kindness, the real one, for your efforts of winning him back.
You want forgiveness, right? You're going to have to give him a little something that says you've changed to work with.
Taking the time to be extra special kind to him is a great start. It definitely shows good intentions on your part. The key to making this successful though is keeping up with the kindness and making it the rule in your relationship rather than the exception.
No asking; No telling
This is the time when your lips need to be sealed. Show him how you've changed instead of telling him all about it. Let your ex see the changes you've made for the better and want to be a part of your life now that those changes have been made.
There's no need to bring attention to yourself. He knows you too well. Make it a point that he sees your dedication in the success of your relationship this time around by doing nice things and by being positive still even when you get that feeling that things are falling apart.
Step Away from Social Networking Sites
YouTube, FaceBook, Twitter and a whole lot of other social networking sites are there and they all make the release of feelings easier. Just note that it's never good to drag along the name of your ex in the virtual mud pond if you really wanted to take him back.
Also avoid putting every emotion and thought out there for the world, and your ex, to read online. Once it's on the World Wide Web, it's there forever - even if you have second thoughts in the morning. Your best bet for the moment is to err on the side of silence and say nothing to your online friends until you've regained your composure.
Watch this free video: http://www.getyourexbacknow.com/just_break_up3.html to find out what your first move needs to be and how to know when it's time to kick your efforts to save your relationship up a notch or wait a little longer. Free reprint avaialable from: Letting Your Ex Forgive You For Almost Anything Including Cheating.
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