by T Dub Jackson
Your husband cheated and while you're angry with him, you want to go after the other woman too. You have so many questions swimming around in your mind and you want answers that you aren't sure he can or will give. You believe that talking to the other woman will give you some kind of closure on the situation so that maybe you can save your marriage.
On second thought, take a few minutes and really think hard if that is what you really wanted to do, before you go and confront the other woman. The following are few reasons you may want to check before taking up that bold step.
1) She actually has no knowledge about you. There are instances when the other woman is as shocked as you are when she knew about you. She may be a complete innocent in this - a victim as such as you have been by your husband's cheating. Yes, you would not actually feel any sympathy for her but you are far better person than that and you'll feel a little better about yourself by not adding salt in an open wounds of another person.
2) You're not actually interested on what she has to say. When she actually know about you it is likely that your husband has told her something that kept her "on the hook". A lot of women if not all do not like to share their men and of course you don't have any idea of how many true, half-true and all the way untrue stories your husband had told her. But what really ticks is that whatever exaggerations he may have shared there is a vein of truth which is enough to cause you more pain in just hearing them from her lips than it is worth.
3) There's no need for her approval. You don't need it. There is no need for the other woman to validate you. Don't even think of getting one from her. For one, she is not likely to give it. Also, she's not the right person you want to seek approval from. She's a shoddy alternate and would never in your whole life give you closure or absolution that you have been looking for as in this case.
4) She has no answers for you. You have a lot of questions but she is not the person who can give you answers. She is actually not the right persons from whom you would want to hear the answers. Don't waste time trying to get some comfort from giving her a visit when the person you really want some answers from is just right there in front of you.
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