by T Dub Jackson
One of the basic problems that couples encounter is stress. It will affect the harmony between couples if you just let it overrule you. The way you cope up with stress is going to lead to a major failure for if you won't know the ways to manage it, you'll be putting your marriage at risk. One fact about it is that; stress could direct you to cheat as a way of coping it.
These four answers might clear your confusions of why stress caused people to cheat.
1) The grass looks greener with the other person. When you feel overwhelmed by stress at home the grass is going to look much greener with someone that doesn't carry the emotional baggage or the huge connection of life, property, and stress factors. And, honestly, why would it seem as brown and decaying as the grass that is constantly littered with things like responsibility, obligation, and need? All these things add stress to our lives but they also offer rewards that cannot be measured and certainly can't be accomplished or achieved by cheating on your spouse.
2) Lack of appreciation causes stress and cheating. Though the two are not always connected, feeling unappreciated or even under-appreciated can lead to stress at work and at home. At the office it can lead to you putting out your resume and beginning to look for options and alternatives. At home, sending out a resume is hardly an option by some people do cope by exploring their options in the single world. Most find that they prefer their own marital woes to the new problems that would arise by living with the other person but often not until the damage is done.
3) Some people cheat as a result of stress solely for the physical release of having sex. It's true. Stress does crazy things to marriages. The sex drive is often the first thing to go despite the fact that having sex relieves stress. In some marriages, there is no sex during highly stressed out stages of the marriage. Sex outside of the marriage is the way many people in this situation turn.
4) We are still on the process of establishing a good strategy to manage stress. It's a learning process day by day which requires a lot of patience. Trying different approaches to cope up stress may mean meeting unpleasant faces of life. More learning, more prepared we are.
Taking steps in the right direction like the ones taught in this free video: http://www.magicofmakingup.com can help. Check here for free reprint licence: Why Stress Leads People To Cheat? - The 4 Reasons.
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